after thinking about this for a bit, i've decided to leave this blog public. i have, however, created another blog that is invitation only for my more personal experiences that i do not necessarily wish for just anyone to have access to.
if you'd like access to this blog, please email me : lala226 (at) gmail (dot) com.
i will post a notification on this blog when i have posted one on the other, so you know when to check.
i just posted a blog : http://butterfly-musings.blogspot.com/