Eureka!

you know when those moments hit you like a ton of bricks over questions you ponder to yourself. like "hmmm...why is it that certain relationships in my life have failed when they could have been better or could have been different?".

TIMING.

that's my HUGEST problem in a couple of my past relationships that i was just thinking of.

i just recently started talking to someone - haven't met in person yet, but the emails and conversations have been great. but we've decided not to even meet simply because he is about to be leaving the state to move elsewhere at the end of this month so it would be better for us both.

of course.

it's timing.

and mine is almost always impeccable.